fix(caldav): respect federation settings

[hamza221]

Summary

Respect federation settings when creating a federated calendar share

Checklist

• Code is properly formatted
• Sign-off message is added to all commits
• Tests (unit, integration, api and/or acceptance) are included
• Screenshots before/after for front-end changes
• Documentation (manuals or wiki) has been updated or is not required
• Backports requested where applicable (ex: critical bugfixes)
• Labels added where applicable (ex: bug/enhancement, 3. to review, feature component)
• Milestone added for target branch/version (ex: 32.x for stable32)

AI (if applicable)

• The content of this PR was partly or fully generated using AI

[hamza221]

/backport to stable34

[hamza221]

/backport to stable33

[hamza221]

/backport to stable32

[hamza221]

/backport to stable31

[hamza221]

/backport to stable30

[hamza221]

/backport to stable29

[backportbot]

The backport to stable29 failed. Please do this backport manually.

# Switch to the target branch and update it
git checkout stable29
git pull origin stable29

# Create the new backport branch
git checkout -b backport/61293/stable29

# Cherry pick the change from the commit sha1 of the change against the default branch
# This might cause conflicts, resolve them
git cherry-pick 6280efcf

# Push the cherry pick commit to the remote repository and open a pull request
git push origin backport/61293/stable29

Error: Failed to check for changes with origin/stable29: No changes found in backport branch

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Learn more about backports at https://docs.nextcloud.com/server/stable/go.php?to=developer-backports.

[backportbot]

The backport to stable30 failed. Please do this backport manually.

# Switch to the target branch and update it
git checkout stable30
git pull origin stable30

# Create the new backport branch
git checkout -b backport/61293/stable30

# Cherry pick the change from the commit sha1 of the change against the default branch
# This might cause conflicts, resolve them
git cherry-pick 6280efcf

# Push the cherry pick commit to the remote repository and open a pull request
git push origin backport/61293/stable30

Error: Failed to check for changes with origin/stable30: No changes found in backport branch

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Learn more about backports at https://docs.nextcloud.com/server/stable/go.php?to=developer-backports.

[backportbot]

The backport to stable31 failed. Please do this backport manually.

# Switch to the target branch and update it
git checkout stable31
git pull origin stable31

# Create the new backport branch
git checkout -b backport/61293/stable31

# Cherry pick the change from the commit sha1 of the change against the default branch
# This might cause conflicts, resolve them
git cherry-pick 6280efcf

# Push the cherry pick commit to the remote repository and open a pull request
git push origin backport/61293/stable31

Error: Failed to check for changes with origin/stable31: No changes found in backport branch

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Learn more about backports at https://docs.nextcloud.com/server/stable/go.php?to=developer-backports.